this is what he wants

she said “this is what he wants” as if we are on two opposing teams and I’m gloating, they fight and that makes me gloat and makes me happy,  thats what she said, something is wrong here something is very wrong how did her mind get her their what line of thinking got her to that point, and when did we become enemies, i must have done something, i lied about many things in the not so distant past, for whatever reason i did lie is not the point , i did it, and that mede us enemies, no something else, we went through a very bad time and we are still in the wake of that time it still lingers, i stopped wanting to talk to her (she wants to be right all the time regardless) somebody told me once that people don’t like others who are always right, then again no body is always right, period. so we don’t talk no communication i find it better than talking to her, anyway when we talk she’s WANTS TO GET HER WAY or the highway, now she has had a lot of practice at this (4 sisters) and i am gullible so she ends up wining the argument, so i don’t want to talk to her any more and since she is good at it she wants to talk all the time.  she told my son that i want them to fight to break them apart so they are one side and I’m on the other fighting, how did that get to her head, who could she think that, she is creating a chasm between me and my son, if the troubles are between me and my waif then why is she bringing our son in to it.  if i tell her about this she would say it was my doing and she has nothing to do with it.  how did we get here? what went wrong? many people go through financial problems like we have, do they all get to the same point that we are? before today i honestly thought that we will get out of this bad time and we will get stronger because of it, but after i herd her say that to my son, i don’t know any more.  the problem is deep and we cant talk, the situation is not yielding, i don’t know what to do. the only thing i know is i don’t like this and i need to do something about my son to turn him into a man (he is 11 almost) but she is not helping actually she is fighting.