A little hardship in life is a good thing, it never killed anybody to face a some trouble in their life, any way, what does not kill you will only make you stronger, so it goes that the more strife and austerity you face, the more seasoned and hardened would you be my son, it is out of my love for you thats where this thing springs from, if I would have you my son to walk honourably through the world, then I must not attempt to clear the obstacles on your way, but I should teach you how to walk firmly over them, and show you how to navigate whatever barrier that might come in your path, i should give you the instruments that will enable you to do that, teach you to use them, when and how, but then i should also know when to let go, leave you to learn by yourself, give you your own space to grow, so that you would become a man my son.
